"GOOD MOTHERS" WITH LOST CULTURE "THE INCOMPATIBLE GENERATIONS" Previously, children were being trained with the cultural doctrine. That was a time when children receive a good knock on their head or a cane on their buttocks for not greeting an elderly one. When our mothers used to communicate with their eyes whilst we were teenagers. When visitors are in the house and we are jumping up and down, there is an eye sign which means get out, stop that or you will cry. When visitors are eating and you want to eat with them, there is this stern look which means "if you collect anything here I will skin you alive" but meanwhile she will be telling the visitors "don't mind him, he won't eat or he has eaten.." When ever we are in a public gathering with our parents, our mothers will control our movements and actions with their natural remote control eyes without saying a word. When you pay a visit to any family member and you want to cry ...